Starring: Birol Ünel, Sibel Kekilli, Meltem Cumbul, Catrin Striebeck, Stefan Gebelhoff, Güven Kiraç
Director: Fatih Akın
Initial Release Date: 04/12/04 [Berlin Film Festival]
Running Time: 123 Minutes
A magnificently beautiful passenger
liner sailing across the Atlantic; A luxurious Northeast African city; Some
greeting card office in America; A Sex Pistols Concert; The psychiatric ward at
a German Hospital, what do those five specific venues have in common? All are
places where strange, but interestingly complicated romantic relationships
began.
“Are you Turkish? Would you marry
me?” Those are the last few words Cahit Tomruk would ever expect to hear from
a random woman, but then again he was inside a psychiatric ward. After
surviving a failed attempt at suicide, by a direct head-on drunk-driven
collision with his car and a wall, Cahit is brought to this medical facility,
where he meets a fellow-psych ward patient, Sibel Guner. She is the woman who
awkwardly asks Cahit to marry her. Sibel is admitted to the same hospital, due
to attempting suicide as well, by slashing her wrists.
Growing up in a very conservative
Turkish household in Germany, Sibel has always felt disenfranchised from her
family. This is why she is very distressed. The only thing keeping her from
running away her family is the love she has for her mother. It is through her
idea of marrying Cahit, a German-Turkish man; she can be liberated from the
household. The thing is, Cahit doesn’t want to be married. He recently lost his
wife, which the film sadly does not reveal. This is why he acts out by
diverting his attention to alcoholism and cocaine. The other reason Cahit does
not want to marry Sibel, is because he despises the Turkish culture and it’s
people, which is the most ironic plot device in the entire story. Even though
he was born in a small province, in Turkey, he speaks the language poorly. The
only thing truly attaching him to his Turkish heritage is his best friend,
Seref, who also acts as his Jiminy
Cricket.
For some reason Cahit feels pity
for Sibel, which is why he decided to marry her. He manages to persuade her
family, even though he is 20 years older than her. They have a civil wedding,
followed by a big Turkish reception. This plays as a nice contrast to the
cultural aspect of the film. Sibel also invites her cousin, Selma, to be her
witness at the wedding ceremony, and also acts as Seref’s female counterpart.
After they wed, Sibel finally feels liberated and doesn’t feel the need to cut
her wrists anymore. As for Cahit, he still drinks heavily, smokes like a
chimney, and managed to get his “new wife” hooked on cocaine.
During the course of their
“marriage,” Sibel sleeps around with other men, which they both agreed upon
before tying the knot. At times, Cahit would accompany Sibel to dance clubs and
watch her hook up with other men. Cahit also does some other extra marital
sexual encounters with a friend of his former deceased wife, which he’s been probable
having sex with a few years/months after she passed away. Even though the two
haven’t had a true intimate connection with each other, and have been treating
the streets of Hamburg like the temple of Dionysius. They still manage to
slowly fall for one another, but it doesn’t manifest overtly fast.
During one evening, when both
already have strong feelings for each other, yet the manifestation wasn’t
obvious. Niko, one of Sibel’s many one-time sexual partners, falls madly in
love with her and finds out that she is married to Cahit. Both men are patrons
at this bar, which is where Niko goes to verbally taunt Sibel’s estranged
husband, by calling him a “pimp” and other derogatory terms. In a fit of
drunken rage, he smacks an ashtray to his harasser’s temple, killing him
instantly. Sibel reaches the bar, only to find Niko’’s lifeless body and her
husband hovering over the lifeless body.
Cahit is sent to prison, and the
Sibel’s father and brother disown her completely. With nowhere to turn, she
leaves Germany and goes to Turkey, in Istanbul, to live with Selma. Over there
she kind of turns into what Cahit was in the start of the film; always
self-abusive through intoxicating substances. Her fits of inebriation and
rebellion cause her to alienate Selma, and get viciously beaten and stabbed by
a group of men.
After a long unspecified duration
of time, the Cahit is released from prison. He tells Seref that he really loves
Sibel, and he wants to go after her, in Istanbul. Seref calls him crazy, but he
retorts by saying that it is through his love and the letters of Sibel that
kept him going in Prison. Seref understands his best friend’s wishes and gives
him the money to buy a ticket to Istanbul. Once he gets to Turkey, he meets up
with Selma, but is shocked to hear bad news. He finds out that Sibel has a
daughter and a boyfriend. This doesn’t stop him from seeing or contacting her.
He manages to contact her, and they
rendezvous at the hotel he is staying at in Istanbul. This is where they have
their first moment of sexual contact. After they make love, she asks him about
his plans. He tells her that he will go to his place birth, Mersin, which is
also in Turkey. She tells him yes, and he tells her to meet him at the bus stop
with her daughter. While packing she hears her child playing with her
boyfriend, then she contemplates about her decision. Then, we see Cahit leaving
on the bus, alone.
Sibel Kekilli’s (Yes, her character
has the same name as her) performance was very enticing. Her range and depth
was very thrilling. The way she manipulated the audience in a provocative
fashion, was seductive to me. At first, she appeared to be this terribly insane
woman, but in the long scheme of things she was just distressed and troubled
from familial pressure and society. Her performance was the real standout
factor in the entire film. Yes, all the actors and actress performed amazingly,
in this film, but Sibel’s performance was just too riveting.
The film had some very strong
scenes. From the scenes where a lot of blood was used, which sets as the film’s
dark tones. Including the rampant drug-driven sexual encounters between Catih
and Maren, where one of their trysts lead to a game of backgammon. My favorite
scene is where Catih confronts Selma. The film’s language constantly pans from
German to Turkish, which adds more to the film’s very rich diversity. But
during their small (but powerful) chat, both sporadically break into small
bursts of dialogues in English, which shows how the intensity of the scenario
is developing.
This was the fourth film by Fatih
Akın, who was it's director and writer. Basing some of the scenarios from his
life as a Turkish German, Fatih manages to bring the viewers into a perspective
only a few can witness. From the blatant racism towards the Turkish community
in Germany, to the conservatism that strongly practiced in a Turkish German
household. The film speaks more about culture than it does about Cahit &
Sibel’s relationship. The usage of a Turkish band performing local songs, along
the riverbanks of the Blue Horn as they are facing away from the famous Blue
Mosque, from the beginning of the film until the credits hit was genuinely
poetic.
Verdict: A Must See!